Putting Erotica Into Practice

Reading erotica can be appealing for a number of reasons, some obvious and some a bit subtler. Of course, for starters, if you’re reading a novel or story that involves a good bit of sexual content, you don’t want to skip out on the sex, and you definitely don’t want it to lack punch! Additionally, for many people, reading erotica can be exciting in and of itself, whether or not it is in the context of a story. But did you know realize that a healthy dose of erotica content can actually help to indirectly spice up your own sex life, and not just your imagination?

One of the main reasons that erotica excites people is that it shows them sexual scenarios and acts that they may never have tried or participated in. Simply put, the sex scenes in erotica stories often represent something new. This means that in addition to being a source of entertainment, erotica can also be a source of ideas for things to put into practice in your own life. For example, let’s say you read a sex scene that involves the use of sex toys that you’ve never tried, or perhaps never even heard of. Sound interesting?

If something like this grabs your attention, you have the option of putting it into practice instead of leaving it on the page. Using the example of becoming excited after reading a scene involving sex toys, you can pay a quick visit to a sex shop online like Adam & Eve and see if they have any of the toys or accessories used in the scene you liked. If you do find the toys that interested you, you are just a few quick clicks away from ordering them for yourself, and then you’ll have all kinds of possibilities.

Of course – particularly if you are in a steady relationship – you will want to discuss these things with your partner before acting on them. Sex toys can be a bit shocking to spring on someone without first discussing it! However, this is just one example of a quick and easy way to put your erotica-based fantasies into real-life practice. When you read something in a book or story, it’s tempting to separate it from reality and enjoy it purely as fiction. However, don’t forget that you can always take your erotica stories as suggestions, in addition to entertainment. Don’t be afraid to try some of the new things you read about – doing is usually even better than reading!

About saschaillyvichauthor

Sascha, who was proclaimed by the publishing industry as The Gentleman Playboy of Romance, started writing eighteen years ago. His erotic romances have been listed under Night Owl Romance’s and Road to Romance’s Recommended read lists, and he’s been nominated for a CAPA by The Romance Studio. Recently, Torn to Pieces was a USA TODAY Recommended Read. Sascha is a trained and experienced public speaker, and enjoys giving talks and teaching, particularly on aspects of romance, erotic romance, and writing. He was the former host of The Unnamed Romance Show on Radio Dentata, and is fond of doing guest spots and interviews, on both traditional radio and podcasts. Sascha writes for City Lights Publishing, Red Sage, Sizzler Editions, Totally Bound, and Decadent Publishing. Find him at http://saschaillyvichauthor.com
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1 Response to Putting Erotica Into Practice

  1. Sascha, wonderful tips to spice up the personal life.

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