Bondage in Romance Stories

Restraint is big amongst those with erotic fantasies involving fetish. The freedom in such acts is one that nears orgasm through stifled movements the adrenaline rush that comes from not knowing what your captor will do to you. Incorporating rope bondage into sex play forces both parties to have an intimate knowledge of their own sexual desires and wants. The person being tied up must know their limits, must trust the person responsible for the artwork of being restrained and ultimately grow comfortable with that person on such a deep level as to know that they can trust them.

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In Forced Pleasure, I used restraint differently I still kept the female submissives bound but instead of taking them to a club at first where they had ccess to high end bondage gear, I made the dominants get creative. The excerpt shows Micah’s creativity when it comes to tying up the lovely Francine.

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For a general but brief lesson, the dominant would need to pay close attention to the person he or she has tied up. Blood circulation is a critical factor as limbs can go numb during play. One beautiful advantage is that pain can be incorporated without actually using traditional methods such as spanking or flogging to induce pain, since once flesh is released and blood flow is no longer restricted, it often sends prickling sensations through the skin. If blindfolds or sensory deprivation is involved, a level of control is stripped away from the person being restrained. There are several books on the subject that discuss shibari in depth for those wanting to pursue this ancient art form, but for those who get creative outside of rope bondage, BDSM offers plenty of DYI options 😉

Talk to me about your bondage fantasies! Do you dream of a lover masturbating you (since this IS national masturbation month) while you’re restrained?

About saschaillyvichauthor

Proclaimed by the Publishing industry as the Bad Boy of Romance, Sascha started writing fourteen years ago. His erotic romances have been listed under the Night Owl Romance and Road to Romance’s Recommended read list, and he's been nominated for a CAPA by The Romance Studio Former host of The Unnamed Romance Show on Radio Dentata Sascha continues to write for Red Sage, Decadent Publishing, Sizzler Editions and Total E-bound. Find him at http://saschaillyvichauthor.com Agency Representation provided by The Corvisiero Agency Editor for Sizzler Editions Intoxication Erotic Romance line, Sascha is also part of the WriteSex Panel, a blog group defining erotica for writers in any genre! Find us at http://www.write-sex.com
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One Response to Bondage in Romance Stories

  1. Either way the partners may be playing out the bondage games to act out their not necessarily the same one and many established couples find the experience relationship-affirming as they both require and imply a level of trust between them that is not normally found within more casual relationships. Studies of mens fantasies have shown that the fantasy of being bound during intercourse is second in frequency only to the basic fantasy of sex with a voluptuous nude woman. Bondage themes have been present in erotica and pornography for some time.. The mythical was a popular subject for bondage in art by painters including s 1630 1840 1869 and 1869 ..Other popular scenarios for bondage in art was that of from the fifteenth century epic poem which is itself a continuation of the romantic epic saga which is similar to that of Andromeda in that the heroine is offered as a sacrifice to the sea gods and the theme.

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